“Everything Happens for a Reason…”

“Everything happens for a Reason…”  Is a phrase that often gets thrown around after a loss of a loved one. Most grievers will accept the comment, give a polite nod and thank you, because we know it was a comment made of goodwill.   It’s a comment that is supposed to help us heal or somehow make sense of the devastation that has just hit our lives. Death and loss are …

Does a Widow Inherit Her Husband’s Debt?: Dealing with Debt After the Loss of a Spouse

Losing a spouse is one of the most difficult experiences anyone can endure, and during this heartbreaking time, many widows find themselves facing complex financial questions, especially concerning any outstanding debts their spouse may have left behind.  One of the most common concerns is: If a spouse dies, what happens to their debt? Is a widow responsible for debt after death, and how does one manage spouse’s debt after death? …

Rush: Learning to Live in the Now

As children we are always in a rush to grow up. A rush for summer break, that first boyfriend/girlfriend, maybe that first kiss, driver’s license, 18th birthday, basically a rush to become an adult.  Do you ever feel like your life is still in this “rush” mode? That we are always future seeking? Always planning, dreaming, plotting: “the next thing.” The Day Everything Changed My “next thing” completely changed on …

Social Security Benefits for Widows: A Guide to Survivor Benefits

Losing a spouse is one of the most profound challenges anyone can face. The emotional toll is immense, but there are also practical and financial hurdles to navigate, especially when it comes to Social Security benefits. If you’re reading this as a widow or widower, you may be eligible for Social Security survivor benefits that can help ease the financial burden during such a difficult time.  This guide will provide …

Growing With Grief

I recently came across this really thoughtful model regarding grief.  It’s called “Growing around Grief” and was created by grief counselor Lois Tonkin.  Basically, the model demonstrates that at first when a loved one passes away grief fills every part of your life. Grief is all consuming. Instead of the original thought that grief shrinks as time goes by, she shares that our grief doesn’t go away, it doesn’t shrink- …

The art of happiness: 8 mindful ways to live a happy life

The article outlines eight ways to cultivate happiness: Embrace the present moment through mindfulness. Cultivate gratitude by focusing on the positive. Exercise regularly to boost mood with endorphins. Practice detachment to reduce attachment to outcomes. Foster deep connections through meaningful relationships. Embrace discomfort for growth and new opportunities. Practice self-compassion to boost well-being. Choose happiness by focusing on positivity. It emphasizes that happiness is a choice and an ongoing practice.

Widowhood Survival Guide: Life Hacks Every Widow Needs

This article provides practical advice and life hacks from widows who share how they manage everyday responsibilities and cope with the challenges of raising children, handling home maintenance, and caring for themselves after losing a spouse. Some key suggestions include: Parenting: Building a network of backup babysitters, using extracurricular activities to get a break, and involving children in chores. Cooking: Using meal delivery services, prepping meals in advance, and cooking …

What Is Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG)?

This article walks through the benefits of Post-Traumatic Growth and the positive changes that can happen after experiencing a traumatic event. It can lead to increased personal strength, a greater appreciation of life, improved relationships, new opportunities, and spiritual growth. This growth occurs through emotional regulation, education, sharing experiences, helping others, and finding meaning in the trauma. To achieve post-traumatic growth, it’s important to process the trauma, reflect on your …

Your guide to maintaining a safe home

This guide provides tips for maintaining your home and preparing for risks, including natural disasters. Key sections cover: Fire Prevention: Install fire extinguishers and smoke detectors, practice an escape plan, and keep combustibles away from heating sources. Electrical Safety: Inspect outlets and avoid overloading circuits. Consider surge protection and lightning protection. Water Damage: Regularly check plumbing, hoses, and appliances for leaks. Maintain water heaters and install water detection alarms. Freezing …

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